{"id":5461,"date":"2020-04-08T14:31:04","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T13:31:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/?p=5461"},"modified":"2020-04-08T14:31:04","modified_gmt":"2020-04-08T13:31:04","slug":"wellness-wednesday-coping-in-interesting-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wellness-wednesday-coping-in-interesting-times\/","title":{"rendered":"Wellness Wednesday: Coping in Interesting Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"lead\">University of Kent Occupational Health and Wellbeing Manager, Brenda Brunsdon<\/p>\n<p>There is a phrase that is known to many of us: \u2018May you live in interesting times\u2019.\u00a0 As it is recounted to us, it is referred to as an ancient Chinese proverb.\u00a0 It is also described as a curse; this is because \u2018interesting times\u2019 usually mean unpredictability, change and unusual circumstances.\u00a0 For most humans, such conditions mean one thing more than any other, lack of control of our destiny.\u00a0 And this leads to feeling stressed and anxious.<\/p>\n<p>At a substantial level, the period we are living through has all the hallmarks of unpredictability, change and unusual circumstances.\u00a0 In this, it fits the definition of \u2018interesting times\u2019.\u00a0 However, we are simultaneously cooped up in our homes with our mobility and liberty to move round substantially curtailed so it also represents the opposite of \u2018interesting times\u2019 and the essence of boredom.<\/p>\n<p>But we can all agree that we are experiencing the stress that comes with the curse of \u2018interesting times\u2019.\u00a0 Anxiety about our own and our family and friends\u2019 health and existence is very real.<\/p>\n<p>There is no single, guaranteed way to stop these feelings of anxiety.\u00a0 Each of us has to approach this challenge with knowledge of ourselves and work with our strengths and weaknesses to deal with this situation.\u00a0 We should be reassured that, although our emotions are unique to each of us, we are dealing with a shared problem underpinning these anxieties and it is a natural human reaction.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some of the things we can all do to help ourselves through this difficult time:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Be kind to ourselves; we are not perfect; we will not be able to control how we feel all the time and it is okay for us to cut ourselves a little slack sometimes to express our vulnerability<\/li>\n<li>Similarly, be kind to others and accept that they are struggling<\/li>\n<li>To appreciate that we may come to feel very low emotionally on times and make ourselves aware of the resources we have available to help us if this happens. A list of such support provided by the University is available through <a href=\"https:\/\/media.www.kent.ac.uk\/se\/10899\/Healthandwellbeingadvice26.3.202.pdf\">this link<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Be aware of our physical health needs and how these are closely connected to our emotional health: we need to eat healthily and sensibly; exercise when and where we can and keep physically active<\/li>\n<li>Formulating a routine to the day helps us to feel we have regained some control over the pattern of our life and this will enhance our sense of self and wellbeing<\/li>\n<li>Be inspired: many people feel a strong sense of emotional connection to our health and care givers in the NHS; listen to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/ideas\/videos\/what-being-a-hostage-taught-me-about-happiness\/p06yyqzx\">this short BBC video by the Anglican Church\u2019s envoy, Terry Waite<\/a> who endured 5 years in a brutal hostage situation to learn how he maintained his mental health throughout those difficult years<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Incidentally, \u2018May you live in interesting times\u2019 is not ancient or Chinese.\u00a0 It appears to be a Twentieth century adage and is probably Western in origin.\u00a0 More information can be found <a href=\"https:\/\/www.phrases.org.uk\/meanings\/may-you-live-in-interesting-times.html\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Wellness Wednesday is part of Kent Sport\u2019s\u00a0 #KentSportStayWellAtHome series of daily blogs and vlogs to keep you positive during these unusual times. To be sure not to miss our updates, Like us on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/unikentsports\/\">Facebook<\/a>\u00a0and follow on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/unikentsports\/?hl=en\">Instagram<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/UniKentSports\">Twitter<\/a>\u00a0@UniKentSports \u2013 we hope you enjoy and join in!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>University of Kent Occupational Health and Wellbeing Manager, Brenda Brunsdon There is a phrase that is known to many of us: \u2018May you live in &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wellness-wednesday-coping-in-interesting-times\/\">Read&nbsp;more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5725,"featured_media":5466,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[124],"tags":[127013],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5461"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5725"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5461"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5461\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5465,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5461\/revisions\/5465"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5466"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5461"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5461"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.kent.ac.uk\/kentsport-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5461"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}