COVID-19 has severely disrupted many aspects of our usual way of life, creating an air of uncertainty for everyone. With restrictions easing across the UK many of us are still left with a cloud of uncertainty affecting various parts of our lives as we know things can change quickly.
Anxieties are often linked to lack of control, uncertainty is a key factor as to why many of us are experiencing heightened anxieties and stresses during the pandemic. We all have different tolerances of uncertainty and it affects us all differently but either way, it is important to manage uncertainty to help alleviate associated stresses.
Below are some tips which may help you to reduce your anxiety and stress levels by learning to cope with uncertainty better, improve your tolerance of uncertainty and challenge your need for certainty.
Work on things you CAN control
Focus on the things that are within your control, rather than worrying about things that are not. We often use worrying as a tool to try and prepare for future scenarios, but this is often a waste of your energy and an unnecessary cause of stress.
By focussing on the things we can control we become more of a pro-active problem solver, rather than being a worrier. For example, COVID-19 is out of your control but you can be proactive and take control of your hygiene, clean surfaces etc. and do various things to protect yourself and others from it.
Take charge of what you can and make the most out of whatever happens. This will ease anxieties stemming from uncertainty.
Question your need for certainty overall
Certainty is something that brings us security in life, but when you think about it, how certain are most things? Do we ever have a job for life? Good health for life? Certainty of what tomorrow may bring? Constantly striving for certainty can only bring us worry and anxiety, as nothing will ever really be truly certain.
We often have a habit of assuming the worst in situations of uncertainty, but how often does this worse case scenario actually play out? Rarely if at all? We live day to day with the slim chance of losing a job, having an accident, falling ill, so why do we struggle to live with the small chance that the worst case scenario will actually play out in certain situations when the likelihood is just as slim?
Accept the uncertainty. When you feel yourself begin to worry remind yourself of the above and try to let the worry go. Uncertainty is a part of life, it is how people deal with it which affects them the most.
More tips and articles on how to help cope with uncertainty
https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/seven_ways_to_cope_with_uncertainty
https://www.bupa.co.uk/newsroom/ourviews/cope-with-uncertainty
How can Care first help?
If you feel you may need some emotional or practical support, you can contact Care first on the Freephone number. Care first is a leading provider of confidential, professional counselling, information and advice services. Whilst our BACP accredited Counsellors are available 24/7 to provide support with emotional issues, our expertly trained Information Specialists are available 8am-8pm Monday-Friday to provide advice on any practical issues that may be causing you a stress or worry and help you feel more in control of a situation.
All employees are eligible to use Care first, our services include; telephone counselling, information services and online support. Call Care first on the Freephone number provided by your organisation and you can speak to a professional in confidence.
If you would like to view the Webinar on ‘Coping with uncertainty’ This is being delivered live on Tuesday 3rd August at 12pm, please use the below link to register for this session –
https://register.gotowebinar.com/register/4632911407349978635
If you are unable to join the webinar live, a recording of the session can be accessed using the same link above after the webinar has taken place.