Moving to a new country for university is both exciting and overwhelming. As an international student from Italy, adjusting to life in the UK—especially accommodation—was a learning experience filled with challenges and surprises. Here’s my personal journey and some tips to help you settle in at Kent.
Written by Anastasia Merli
My First Thoughts on Accommodation – What to Expect
When I first arrived at Kent, I was both excited and nervous about my accommodation. I live in Darwin Houses on campus, sharing a kitchen and bathroom with my classmates but having my own room. Coming from Italy, where I had my own space at home, adjusting to shared facilities was something new. However, I quickly realised that it’s a great way to bond with people and feel less alone in a new country.
One of the biggest differences I noticed was the UK-style bathrooms—getting used to separate hot and cold taps and managing shower pressure took some time! Also, sharing a kitchen meant learning to organise fridge space, clean up after myself, and respect others’ schedules. Despite these small adjustments, I found that living on campus was the best choice for me—it offered convenience, a built-in social life, and easy access to university facilities.
Finding the Right Room – What I Wish I’d Known
Applying for accommodation was straightforward, but I wish I had known more about the different housing options beforehand. I chose on-campus housing for the community feel and convenience, but some students prefer off-campus living for more independence and potentially lower costs.
When choosing a room, I prioritised having my own space while still being close to my classmates. If you value privacy, an en-suite room might be worth considering, though it comes at a higher cost. Budgeting is also key—rent covers utilities, but extra expenses like food, laundry, and social activities can add up quickly. I recommend setting aside a bit more than you think you’ll need to cover unexpected costs.
Preparing for the Move – Packing and Settling In
Packing for university can be tricky, especially when moving abroad. I overpacked initially, bringing too many clothes and unnecessary items. What I really needed were essentials like bedding (though you can buy it upon arrival or pre-order your essentials from UniKitOut), kitchen basics, and personal touches like photos to make my room feel like home.
Checking in was a smooth process—the university provided clear instructions, and I received my keys upon arrival. My first few days were spent exploring campus, meeting my flatmates, and slowly settling in. A tip: don’t hesitate to ask for help if you’re unsure about something—everyone is in the same boat!
Living with Flatmates – What I Learned
One of the best parts of living in student accommodation is meeting people from different backgrounds. Breaking the ice can be as simple as cooking together or watching a movie in the common area. At first, it can feel awkward, but small interactions go a long way in building friendships.
Sharing spaces means compromise. We set up informal cleaning schedules to keep the kitchen and bathroom tidy, which helped avoid conflicts. Communication is key—if something is bothering you, addressing it early can prevent bigger issues later.
Common Challenges – What I Struggled With (and How I Overcame It)
Homesickness
Being far from family and friends was tough, especially during the first few weeks. Regular video calls with my loved ones helped, but I also made an effort to immerse myself in university life. Joining societies and attending events made a huge difference.
Cultural Adjustment
Adjusting to UK culture took time. Meal times are different, and I had to get used to queuing for everything! The British weather was another challenge—always carry an umbrella! But embracing these differences made my experience richer.
Practical Challenges
Things like doing laundry (figuring out how the machines work!) and understanding UK appliances were small hurdles. Watching YouTube tutorials and asking flatmates for advice helped me navigate these everyday tasks.
Finding Support and Resources
Kent offers great support for international students. The university hosts orientation programs and social events that help you integrate quickly. Student services also provide advice on academic and personal matters.
Making friends was crucial in feeling at home. I met people through my flat, classes, and societies. If you’re struggling to find your crowd, don’t worry—everyone is looking for connections, and it just takes time.
Final Thoughts
Living in university accommodation has been an incredible learning experience. It has taught me independence, adaptability, and the value of shared experiences. If you’re an international student coming to Kent, know that the initial challenges will pass, and soon, this place will feel like home.
My biggest piece of advice is to be open to new experiences, ask for help when you need it, and embrace the journey. You’ll grow in ways you never expected!
Hear more from Anastacia and her fellow postgraduate students in the Postgraduate Student Living at the University of Kent podcast.